I also don't recall it being loud, and we were near the front - in theatrical terms, it wasn't that noisy but then again babies can cry if there is any kind of startling sound.

Yes you can buy the flags and the bandanas before the show from the ticket office. Not sure how much they are.

No need to upgrade really, we didn’t and seats were still good.

Seats are in sections and levelled. Views are great wherever you are sitting.

The show is less than two hours - probably pretty close to 90 minutes. It is worth getting to the show early by at least 45 minutes. The will seat you 30 minutes before the show and the 15 minutes before that they put on a small show in the waiting area. The have free appetizers and drinks available while you wait. The $3 soda has free refills, so they don't gauge you if you come early and hang out.

No. They passed out a little dish after the showing saying tip is not included. Suggested tipping was $2-$5 per person.

Our 7:00pm show ended at 8:40pm. Try to arrive at least 60 minutes before your show time to catch the pre-show. The line to get inside can easily be 20-25 minutes long. If your show time is 6:30pm, I would anticipate your show ending at ~8:10pm.

I think 6pm will be good. They do serve yummy finger food (free!), the fried Mac n Cheese is a must try! There's also an opening segment in the area before the actual show itself so you shouldn't miss that too.

It's not perpetually loud throughout the entire dinner but there are some segments that can may alarm her if she sensitive eg gun shots